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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am hoping to settle out of court and he does have a reputation to lose..[/quote] It takes two sane and honest people to divorce without the court. Mine was unreasonable, abusive, passive aggressive and stonewalling. The only way I got divorced was to hire an attorney who requested the mediator she knew who could manage his insane antics do mediation and get the job done during a 6 hr mediation on zoom. At one point early on he had a meltdown and started banging his hands on the table saying he was going to be heard. The mediator essentially yanked him back and told him this isn’t how this works and he stopped. He got something important to him and I got the same. Later he didn’t follow through on the marital separation agreement and my attorney filed for contempt. Cost me about $50K to gain (what was legally mine) more than $1.2 million in assets. He paid half of what I payed for contempt fees. A huge pain in the ass and I was not going down without a fight. He cheated, lied abused and other and it boiled down to financials. The court didn’t care that he was mean and maniacal. [/quote] Good job! I feel like this should be pinned. [/quote]
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