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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a few friends who have little to no family, and I know this time of year is not easy. But I am so busy between work, work holiday events, kids, dh, extended family, getting ready for Xmas travel, etc. It’s hard to have any extra time to catch up. Even a phone call is hard, as I’m exhausted by the end of the day. [/quote] You prioritize what is important to you. You are doing so many things that you don't necessarily have to do. So if you cannot somehow fit them in somewhere( even a call), they are not as important as you want to make it seem.[/quote] This is the answer…and it applies to everything in life. It’s the parent that somehow can make their kid’s every game at 3:30pm on a weekday, but is too “busy” to attend a parent teacher conference or go to the grocery store. Somehow everyone has the time to do whatever they want to do…but little to no time for the things they just don’t find important or want to do. [/quote] You sound insane. [/quote] DP and no, they don't, but you sound triggered af. Adults make choices, and get to be responsible for those choices. Time management is a skill we're expected to have, especially if we have kids. The holidays reveal the need for that skill, and who has it/who doesn't. Sorry that seems to hurt your feelings. Maybe you need better time management skills? It's not at all "insane" to suggest that sane people know how this works, even if you don't (yet).[/quote]
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