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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Realizing that they were never the person they portrayed to be the first 6 months. I fell in love with that person and then managed to imagine future together. They were just mirroring how I treated them. I must have done a good job, because it felt so good. They were also from different culture. I thought that's norm for them. Not true. I did ask why they would love-bomb me and then fall flat. They said everyone did that. Again, not true. The worst is not even the love-bombing, but disappearing and then thinking they can just come back whenever and several times. Who the heck does this?! Not one healthy person I know. They need validation when they contact me and my healing takes several steps back. Shortly, I love the fantasy I created based on how they were at the beginning. [/quote] Who does this? Avoidants do! [/quote]
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