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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would honor the prenup basically to be a decent human being.[/quote]

OP here - this is what I'm thinking. He will push back on determining what he contributed and yielded on his retirement in the last 13 years, but I think he should. [/quote]
I strongly disagree. There is a reason someone put an expiration date on the prenup and the other person agreed to the expiration date. The prenup no longer exists. It’s completely irrelevant. This was not a very short marriage and there’s a child involved. There’s no benefit to walking away from money you’re legally entitled to.

That’s not to say that you should push for half his retirement savings prior to your marriage. You don’t need to be vindictive, but you also don’t need to pretend you still have a prenup in effect. [b]Just be fair.[/b][/quote]

Obviously, they both felt the prenup was fair when they signed it. What changed since then in your mind? [/quote]
They felt it was fair for a short term (5 years or less) marriage. They did not feel that it was fair for a longer marriage. They’ve been married 13 years.[/quote]

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