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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How is any of this anti-feminist?

You make a lot more money than her, so it makes logical sense you would pay more. Most couples split things based on income.

Yes, if someone drives an hour to see you for the weekend, it is common courtesy for you to take care of your guests. The BF is putting her up in a hotel? Why? That makes zero sense. Either way, yea, if you request someone come visit you for the weekend but you won't let them stay with you, you should pay for their hotel room.

And it sounds like it's not about you feel taken advantage of, it's more that you want to stick it to her for being feminist. That's not a good sign that you care about her or even like her. You shouldn't be looking for "gotchas!" with your partner.

Like my BF is more 'traditional' and believes that the man is the leader. Does that mean I sit back and let him make every single decision and if he doesn't, whine and complain "but you said men are leaderssssss"? No, that's just dumb, just like it would be dumb for him to bean count every little thing and make sure it's split right down the middle.

Each person brings their own beliefs about relationships and you find a way to compromise so everyone is happy. If you're just going to complain, you should break up.[/quote]

I don't think that what was OP was saying. For him, it is the hypocrisy and that is unsustainable in the relationship. If she can't even talk or thank him for the things he does financially or other ways then she is a user and very soon going to get dumped. You need to bring enough to the table and if it is not money then atleast honesty and appreciation. OP is not even talking about joint decisions but her gf showing that she is doing him a favor when it is the other way around. [/quote]

OP himself chose to date a woman with young kids and low financial responsibility. Likely because she’s hot. Now he has a buyer remorse [/quote]

I don't read anywhere that her kids are young. If her daughter is going somewhere and staying in hotel with her bf then she must be in college. Ofcourse, OP can end things anytime if she is not fulfilling his needs and they both need to have a talk about this. [/quote]

She’s 42 and has one daughter who is old enough to drive, and another child. So likely the younger is 10-12 and the daughter 16-18 . Sounds like a single hot baby momma with low social and financial responsibility [/quote]

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