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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder if some of the hot and cold and distance is due to your hurt feelings and if or how you might be unintentionally treating her coldly.

What was her reason for not attending your son’s party? I know you know people are obligated to attend a party.[/quote]

Her child was trying a class (an on going, daily class that she could’ve tried any other time). She canceled 2 days before after I asked and asked for an RSVP “oh so sorry, Larla trying a drum circle that day!” My son was crushed and so was I. The girl and mom were our best friends.[/quote]
I don’t understand this story. If you were asking and asking for an rsvp, then how is she cancelling something when she hadn’t given an rsvp? Why was  your son so certain she was coming that he was crushes while you were still trying to get an rsvp?[/quote]

I asked her 4ish weeks before when I planned it. “Yup we’ll be there!”…I sent an invite but she didn’t officially rsvp. Checked again verbally a week or so, “yep sounds fun!”…3 or so days before I had to order pizza so I checked the website for the headcount, didn’t see hers so I checked in again “ hey I’m ordering pizza just need a headcount”… that’s when she said they can’t make it because her daughter was trying a new class. My son has a small sweet group of friends and we really thought she would be there.[/quote]

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