Reply to How to scale back friendship with friend’s spouse without scaling back relationship with friend?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How to scale back friendship with friend’s spouse without scaling back relationship with friend?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
You have a husband problem OP.

I can't believe this man made jokes about your hair and shared it with others and your husband didn't say anything to him...  Yikes.

I'd ghost both of them.

This wife is trash too as she didn't think that was rude of her man? 
She didn't speak up? 
Ask him to stop? 
Have a side Convo with you on that?

ICK!

[/quote]

OP here. I felt all of the things you shared. The only excuse I can think of for my friend is her DH is always like this and she likely just thinks it’s a joke. She probably did say something to him 1:1 (I’ve seen her do this often) but since we all do have a playful relationship, my guess is she didn’t think I was upset. Either that or she’s a butt hole too. Lol. She has lost friends because of her DH’s behavior. This is nothing new.

My DH can lack emotional consideration often, but his rationale is that I allowed the dynamic, so I should scale it back if I don’t like how far the guy goes. He’s also a big proponent of not caring what other people say or think, so as such, he thinks I’m overreacting. [/quote]

OP please stop making excuses for these people -- including the man you're married to. 
Put your foot down. That's not acceptable behavior.  Hard Stop.

Control what you can. Which is your interactions with them (that couple) I would not continue a friendship with them.

[/quote]

OP here. Thank you for this. I receive it. [/quote]

No problem - You got this 🙌🏾❤️[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics