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[quote=Anonymous]As a general rule, the kids who join Greek life assimilate to college much faster and skip the whole homesick, awkward, fish-out-of-water stage you hear so much about from parents on this forum. That’s why I’m not a fan of the spring rush system that’s gotten so popular at small schools. Kids need something to immerse themselves in right away. The idea of having a semester to “explore” and try different groups sounds great in theory but fails in practice, hence all the “my freshman is miserable” posts you see here. By the time my kid went back in the spring of his freshman year, he was an initiated brother who felt like a veritable god on campus, while his high school buddies at SLACs were just starting rush, a process that, by that point, meant scrambling the tenuous social order from the fall. Long story short, if you want your kid to throw himself headlong into college from day one, and you don’t want to field the “I’m homesick” calls, encourage him to pick a school with first-semester rush and participate in it.[/quote]
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