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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry, OP - it's really hard to watch. It happened to my DD in 7th grade and again in 9th - the same girls were involved both times, so it shouldn't have been a surprise, tbh. You've gotten some good advice already that I will reiterate -- make family plans when possible, listen and empathize when needed, but give space when your DC wants it. Foster friendships outside of school.

My DD plays sports outside of school, so really fostered and leaned on those friendships. She also found new friends or became better friends with other people at school. It's important for your DD to find new friends in school -- she will continue to feel down about herself if she doesn't because her old friends will likely make her feel bad about herself. My DD still (understandably) carries some insecurities with her even though she is in a much better place now.

Remind her that real friends don't make her feel bad about herself and that quality matters a whole lot more than quantity. I'm sorry you all are going through this. It will get better but it does take some work. [/quote]

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