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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.  The point of this post isn’t to debate the facts of what happened, it’s more - how do I respond to what felt like a gross overreaction to a *question*?  I burst into tears because of how angry he got and the things he said to me, and how quickly.  I’m already feeling down - I don’t have much community, I feel very isolated, and I’m really freaking out about getting a new job.  He knows this.

We barely spoke yesterday and I slept in another room last night.  I don’t know what to do now.  I don’t even feel safe talking to him. [/quote]

Sounds like you both got very emotional and had a quick reaction to the other. He may be freaking out about things too. He isn’t feeling listened to.

And you saying you don’t feel safe talking to him because he expressed emotion and frustration about not feeling heard is ridiculous. Clearly there is a lot more than the Uber ride going on underneath for him. You saying he knows how badly you are feeling but you don’t seem to have noticed the same about him. Turning yourself into a victim over this is quite manipulative. [/quote]

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