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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you’ve got a major communication problem. He’s got a point that you don’t listen to him considering your post doesn’t even say WHY he was mad. Does he think Ubers are unreliable for a medical appointment? Was it his preference to drive? Did he feel like he had “dibs” on the car since he scheduled his appointment first? Or because his thing was necessary and yours was fun? Is he worried about money and doesn’t want to waste it on Ubers? Is he upset that you’re visiting friends instead of job hunting? Would Ubering take longer and cause him to miss more work? What was his actual problem or concern? So that’s step one - figure out why he was mad, and address it.

Step two, once that’s addressed, is to talk to him about how he talks to you. Freaking out and saying hurtful things is not an appropriate way to respond to a reasonable suggestion, no matter his reasoning.

So it sounds like you need to work on listening, and he needs to work on his tone and how he talks to you. [/quote]

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