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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I matched with a guy and we messaged for a bit, but then he stopped responding to my last message. Later, he reached out to apologize, saying he’d gotten busy. I saw the message but wasn’t sure if I wanted to continue the conversation, though[b] I didn’t unmatch[/b]—so I guess part of me was still interested.

He followed up again with a really nice voice message, which won me over. We messaged a bit and had a video call. We talked about meeting in person, and I said I’d share my phone number on the app. I did and he replied with his number, which I found odd, since he already had mine. Why not just text me?

Anyway, I mentioned that I appreciated how busy he is, adding that my time is limited too—but I didn’t mean to suggest I didn’t want to hear from him soon.

Now I’m wondering: should I text him? I don’t want to seem desperate or like I’ll be the one initiating everything. I want a man who’s willing to pursue me.

Thoughts?[/quote]

You sound like the type that wants to "unmatch" first so you can try to save face etc.

He should avoid you. [/quote]

Save face? I haven’t met the guy and [b]unless a date is arranged I will probably never encounter this person in my life. [/b][/quote]
So why are you leading him on then?
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