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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DS is 6 and his friend is one year younger and has autism. I’m very close with the mom and adore her dearly. I don’t know what’s going on and if she’s overwhelmed, but she’s always clean and well presented.

DS friend does have autism and it’s a bit of a fight but he relents eventually, I clipped his fingernails and toenails and put him in clean clothes on the third day. The clothes were visibly soiled.

What’s concerning is they’re asking for sleepovers, and I’m kind of concerned because my kid always go to bed after a bath and changes his clothes everyday. I don’t want to say anything to my friend but am gauging if anyone else lets their kid wear dirty clothes three days in a row?  I feel bad. [/quote]

If the child has autism, they may be very rigid about clothes and not willing to change them.  It may not be her choice.  Even if she buys multiple of the same outfit, I don't understand why you are clipping his toes and fingers and dealing with the clothing.  This is super strange.[/quote]

He's been at my house for 4+ hours/day since Friday, and he plays every day with my son. We've been doing kitchen crafts and baking, having lunch and playing and they've been jumping on the couch in the playroom. His fingernails and toenails were long and caked with dirt, it was a hygiene issue.[/quote]

I hope you aren't serious.  You should not be doing this without parents' permission.  Kids should not be jumping on the couch.  Supervise them instead of posting here.  You sound just as bad.[/quote]

I’m serious. Yes, they can jump on the couch in the playroom, it’s fine. It’s as old as the flood.[/quote]

That's bad parenting as then your kid goes to houses like mine where its not allowed and then they aren't welcome back nor do we let our kids at yours.  Focus on your parenting first.[/quote]

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