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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife expects sex on the weekends, but puts in no effort into arousal. Even with hundreds of ideas I've given her, she does everything so reluctantly to the point it turns me off.[/quote]
You are a lucky man if your wife expects sex.[/quote]

"Expects sex" as in it's my fault if we don't. She doesn't communicate any libido, anything she's enjoying, anything she wants to do, doesn't say anything during. Doesn't initiate, doesn't put in any effort, almost like she's barely participating. But it will be my fault if we don't, because she was "open to it" had I put in 100% of the effort.[/quote]

So, whatever you’re doing is not getting her aroused? Are you initiating and letting her know how attractive you find her? If you tell her how much you love her and love having sex with her, maybe she will respond in kind.

Our society can be kind of weird about women and sex, and some women have really taken in the message that it is up to men to initiate.  Maybe some patience and kindness will lead her to enjoy initiating and you can both enjoy what follows. 
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