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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tried it as a woman and it just felt like getting a lot of low quality sex with people who didn’t really care much about each other. And when I truly like a man, i never want to sleep with someone else. It’s very, very rare I would even be attracted to someone that much to sleep with  them . Maybe in 20-30s a woman scan meet tons of attractive men to sort with, but 70%  40-50s men are not sexually attractive to me.

If a woman or a man enjoys this they are likely non monogamous. [/quote]

I'm a woman who enjoys FWB/hookups. I don't want to commit to just any man, so I'd rather wait for one I see a future with. In the meantime, I want to get laid, and I don't see the need to be fake monogamous when it's not a relationship.

And sure, relationship sex tends to be better (but not always). I see it like pizza. Yea, I'd love a wood-fired pizza from Naples. Delicious. But the local stuff ain't so bad. And even Pizza Hut will do in a pinch. 
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I personally found toys  and soft porn more rewarding and less time consuming than mediocre dates sex and time spent with men I wasn’t very much into, or didn’t see a relationship material. I couldn’t even orgasm strongly with them and was bored. 
But I don’t eat junk in general. Very busy and have limited time that I only spend on people who mean something to me 
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That's great that works for you! But personally, I don't enjoy toys or porn that much. I prefer a human. I can tell early on if there's chemistry, and we talk about sex quite a bit before having it, so I don't have much boring sex. Communication is key.[/quote]

I guess the number of men you have chemistry with is much higher than for me. I was into /wanted to sleep with 3 persons in 4 years. And if I feel they are not into me or not relationship material (and they could be perfectly fine, just no passion), I mentally check out and don’t want to invest my time into it. I keep looking and spend time solo/family and friends [/quote]

Probably! I have a pretty high sex drive. I’m also pretty social so I’m around a lot of men. I definitely couldn’t have sex just 3 times in 4 years. [/quote]

That, or maybe just not very picky [/quote]

I mean, you should be WAY more picky about who you commit to than FWB. Commitment is a big deal and it sucks to waste months or years on the wrong person. FWB, if they’re hot and fun, that’s all that really matters. No sense in going sexless for a long time while you date. [/quote]

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