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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tried it as a woman and it just felt like getting a lot of low quality sex with people who didn’t really care much about each other. And when I truly like a man, i never want to sleep with someone else. It’s very, very rare I would even be attracted to someone that much to sleep with  them . Maybe in 20-30s a woman scan meet tons of attractive men to sort with, but 70%  40-50s men are not sexually attractive to me.

If a woman or a man enjoys this they are likely non monogamous. [/quote]

I'm a woman who enjoys FWB/hookups. I don't want to commit to just any man, so I'd rather wait for one I see a future with. In the meantime, I want to get laid, and I don't see the need to be fake monogamous when it's not a relationship.

And sure, relationship sex tends to be better (but not always). I see it like pizza. Yea, I'd love a wood-fired pizza from Naples. Delicious. But the local stuff ain't so bad. And even Pizza Hut will do in a pinch. 
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I personally found toys  and soft porn more rewarding and less time consuming than mediocre dates sex and time spent with men I wasn’t very much into, or didn’t see a relationship material. I couldn’t even orgasm strongly with them and was bored. 
But I don’t eat junk in general. Very busy and have limited time that I only spend on people who mean something to me 
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That's great that works for you! But personally, I don't enjoy toys or porn that much. I prefer a human. I can tell early on if there's chemistry, and we talk about sex quite a bit before having it, so I don't have much boring sex. Communication is key.[/quote]

I guess the number of men you have chemistry with is much higher than for me. I was into /wanted to sleep with 3 persons in 4 years. And if I feel they are not into me or not relationship material (and they could be perfectly fine, just no passion), I mentally check out and don’t want to invest my time into it. I keep looking and spend time solo/family and friends [/quote]

Probably! I have a pretty high sex drive. I’m also pretty social so I’m around a lot of men. I definitely couldn’t have sex just 3 times in 4 years. [/quote]

I was in relationships with 2 of them having sex waay more often than what I would get in casual dating [/quote]

Pretty obvious you have more sex in a relationship than single, yea? The point is just to have some fun and scratch the itch! Way better than being celibate while you’re looking for the one![/quote]

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