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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would consider the least disruptive option for your kids- that probably looks like summer and extended holidays with dad, rest of time with mom. This is pretty close to a 70-30 split and keeps kids from switching homes during the school year which is so disruptive. It’s hard in the parents to miss long stretches with their kids but it should is about the kids stabilitynot the parents feelings. [/quote] That's not allowing dad to parent. Its also hard on the kids to lose a parent. Parents divorce each other, not the kids. Kids will adapt. They need both paernts equally.[/quote] Eh…kids need equal parents equally. But when one parent isn’t parenting they are better off spending more time with the engaged parent. The “equal” trope originated from studies of healthy, intact families with two parents and shouldn’t be applied to divorcing families and custody situations, yet it regularly is.[/quote]
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