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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a vent post. When I first met my boyfriend he came off as a pretty nice guy, very well read, open-minded and intelligent. He mentioned being a feminist in our early dating and espoused views about equality (this was all unprompted).

Now that we’ve settled into the relationship he has started trying to get me to listen to various podcasts he’s into. I don’t listen to podcasts and never really knew who these people were. Well after listening more they are saying some very anti-woman stuff, and my boyfriend has started complaining about how feminism and women working has ruined our society. He also has started saying super anti-Jewish stuff. Um WTF?! He is entitled to his opinions, but he clearly deceived me on his views.

I decided im done. But i’m pissed that he wasted my time.[/quote]

An ex-friend married a guy like this. The guy is an extreme rwnj who kept his crazy, scary background a secret from his now wife. He seems reasonable and likeable when you first meet him. She is the breadwinner and had lots of friends. Now he controls everything in the house and who my ex-friend hangs around with. He posts a lot on social media and is spending all of the money she makes on guns, bullets, weird prepping, and odd toys for himself. She's not allowed to go in certain parts of their home. He shops for them and is a hoarder. He boasts on line in his incel related groups how he's trained her not to question things. He goes out early in the am to shop before she is up and hides things. He boasts on-line about he has kept his past hidden from her. She is well paid and he had a reasonable tech job with an adult married daughter. Their house should have been paid of over a decade ago. They struggled to put together 2k for a down payment on  a new car a few years ago.

Take your time dating people and if they won't talk about their past or views, don't rush to commit.[/quote]

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