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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I am the friend in this scenario. About two years ago, I slowly started fading a longtime friend/relative. I know it hurt her, but telling her why would hurt her even more. Simply put, I had outgrown her, but more specifically, I don't respect her or her choices. I find her integrity and morals to be low. I feel like I made the right choice by not explaining.

Sometimes, just accepting something and moving on is best. I do agree that it sucks that she stole your friends. [/quote]

You should explain this to her. It's awful of you to just ghost her. You're just as bad.[/quote]

Not that PP, but if the judgement is that morals and integrity are low, I don't think having a conversation about it is going to fix anything. [/quote]

I think it's more cruel to state the reason.

I had a guy friend break up with a girl because her lady part smelled bad. He told her, and it crushed her. Some things are better left unsaid. You think being ghosted was cruel, but if you actually knew the real reason, you'd understand that being ghosted is an act of kindness in some cases. [/quote]
Obviously it was better for her to know so she can fix it. [/quote]

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