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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it OP, because I am also a little rigid and like to plan, but this is a you problem. Plan to do NOTHING when your parents visit. I literally just make sure I have some beverages they like and a cribbage board out. If they feel up to a walk or another outing in the moment, we do it. Otherwise it's all play by ear or I specifically leave them home while I take my kids to must-not-skip events.[/quote] We have planned to do nothing before and they spend the entire time sitting on my couch staring at their phones. It's awkward for DH and I to sit and listen to their Instagram reels. Plus, my kids notice that my parents aren't really "visiting" with us, and it makes them feel like their grandparents aren't interested in them.[/quote]
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