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[quote=Anonymous]Do loving, nurturing, supportive and feminine women still exist? Yes, both masculine men and feminine women exist, but you really have to have a strategy to find them. Since healthy masculinity is more of a subjective idea, your ideal level of masculinity will likely be beta to some and toxic to others, so a blueprint will not be universal. Find a man that has the traits you want and figure out how and where he was raised and where he spends his free time and go get yours. The biggest problem is not figuring out who is genuinely that man, but understanding how to treat him so he stays masculine for you. Unfortunately, western society no longer creates either broadly because our social norms don’t value masculine men or feminine women. We prioritize the individual over family/community and immediate happy feelings over building long-term success through hardworking and sacrifices. In general, the men and women of today are only loyal to their feelings instead of loyal to their commitments, relationships and values. It sucks for all of us.[/quote]
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