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[quote=Anonymous]I didn’t grow up in an environment where we routinely used titles when addressing friends’ parents—first names were the norm, and no one ever corrected us or suggested otherwise. In many cases, the parents were both doctors, so using titles might have added to the confusion anyway.

A few neighbors have politely corrected my children when they've used first names, which I genuinely don’t mind—though I’ll admit, those moments can feel a bit awkward, and I sometimes walk away feeling guilty.

That said, I completely agree that children who don’t use titles aren’t being rude. A little grace and understanding for different naming conventions would go a long way. My general rule: if you'd prefer a title, just kindly correct and move on. And if a child slips up a few times, try to give them the benefit of the doubt. They’re probably doing their best, and for kids with challenges like ADHD—diagnosed or not—remembering those kinds of adult preferences can be especially tough.[/quote]

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