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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One tip is to proactively put your plans on the calendar rather than trying to fit into the gaps in her family's schedule. Men are sometimes really lazy about planning and that's how they get stuck with the leftover time slots.[/quote] Stepmom here - this is sadly so so true. The only time we see my adult stepkid is if she or I plan it. Luckily, we enjoy each other’s company and I don’t have my own kids (just one shared kid), so there’s no issues of fairness. OP - Unless you aren’t physically capable of traveling on your own, the only reason you aren’t seeing your kids more often is laziness. Don’t blame your GF when you’re being so passive. And your kids likely know you’re lazy, especially your daughters. [/quote]
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