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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]STOP teaching your girls to put their needs second to other people! If someone is mean to your daughter and she doesn’t want to be with her that is a healthy and normal response. Sure people have all kinds of reasons for being who they are but you do not have to let them hurt you because of that. She is not a therapist. She is not responsible for the mental health and well being of this child. She should not actively hurt her but she does not need to make herself smaller to accommodate her. [/quote] Thank you! It's baffling to me that we've come to a point where we make our own kids upset for the sake of the mean kid's feelings. When DD is older, should she stay with an abusive BF because he may have some social issues and it would be mean to break up with him over it? No, of course not. But that's exactly what we are teaching kids when inclusion goes this far. [/quote]
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