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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that a lot depends on if this was a one-time thing or a longer-term deception, as well as how committed he is to repairing things.  Have any of your suspicions proved to be true since first finding out?

It's very hard to get over the suspicious feelings once you discover that someone is capable of lying to your face. He's angry that you don't trust him and won't let him prove his innocence, but ultimately, that's his fault. He really needs to put himself in your shoes, feeling suspicious all of the time and wondering if someone is lying or cheating is a horrible feeling and not something you want to feel. He put you there. If he can't understand that or get to a place where he's sensitive to these feelings you're having (that he caused!) he's really only thinking about himself. This is unfortunately, a very typical trait of someone who has cheated. This takes a long long time to get through (over? not sure) and he really should have a lot more patience and understanding than what it sounds like he's exhibiting. [/quote]

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