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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP— I told my daughter to stand up for herself and start speaking up, but she’s just not that type of person. I think that’s why she’s become an easy target for a mean girl. It’s been going on for a while, and even though I keep encouraging her to fight back, it sometimes feels like she sees me as another person pushing her too hard.

Last night, on the car ride home after practice, I asked if she was even happy being on the team and playing there. Her answer was “50/50,” and she said it in such a sad voice. I can feel her pain, but I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.

Are there any coaches or programs that focus on building confidence and helping kids strengthen their mindset—both on and off the field?[/quote]

Yes, some top clubs and coaches work to build a more collaborative culture/team. But even then, when you have highly competitive people, you'll still see clashes. If possible, try to get your kid a soccer mentor, who maybe can help with advice. Some outside trainers focus on this as it's part of the mental aspect of the game. You don't just have to worry about the other team, sometimes you have to worry about your own team even more![/quote]

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