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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I've been in the divorce process since Sept 2024. I'm also seeing a new guy who is fantastic and still live in the house that we legally co-own. Even though we are getting divorced because he had a long affair, I don't bring my new guy to my house. I was honest and up front with new guy from the get go that ex and I still legally co-own the house and I didn't feel right bringing someone back there until I officially buy him out of it which I need some time (I'm close-ish to my equity at work being fully vested and planning to use that to buy him out and pay off the mortgage). Ex is giving me the grace to hang out to house til that time and I don't want to rock the boat. I also personally don't want any trash on my side of the street. When the kids are fully adults and if they ever ask or find out, I want them to have confidence that I did everything I could in a respectful manner and did not bring any more drama into our lives. I love my kids more than I hate ex and again, I was very very upfront with new guy that this is how I needed to gracefully exit the marriage.

Op, look up the 360 method or grey rocking. That's what you want to do. Completely disengage unless it's something about the kids or other NECESSARY convos. Otherwise, an ex is an ex and should be treated as such.[/quote]

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