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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious before you all had kids with these monsters, did you even think about how you were bringing kids into crappy marriages?[/quote]

Hah. May your smugness come back to bite you.

The short answer, as you likely already know, is that people change. Or they can no longer keep on the mask after a few years. Or they have mental health breaks. Or mid-life crises. Or they snap.[/quote] Seriously. My ex's financial success went to his head which happened after we had kids. He's that guy who has to let you know he has GROUP ONE BOARDING. The guy I married and had kids with was happy to be able to afford a plane ticket in Economy.[/quote]

My ex’s financial success came right after he filed. “Coincidentally”. Maybe don’t file before an earnings release, clown. But his personality was headed in that direction  long before.

I only had one kid before I realized that he wasn’t just a Group One Boarding Guy at the airport, but felt entitled to it at home. Group One Boarding Guys don’t understand why they have to wake up in the middle of the night for a kid if someone else can, why they have to cook if someone else can, or why they have to explain when they’ll be home from the office or leaving on a trip.

My ex DH thrives on external validation and immediate gratification. Being part of a family offers pretty much the opposite of those kinds of rewards, so he eventually bailed after years of making it clear that Group One Boarding Guys don’t do [fill in the blank]. [/quote]

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