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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also without him splitting bills, mortgage, yard work, child care, you'll have more chores and need more money from your job so unlikely to have less stress, just different kind of stress. Add dating and custody issues etc as cherry on cake.

What you need to do is to have a heart to heart calm discussion with your husband about your family needing to do some work to improve daily grind and creat a more peaceful environment for all of you.

If its all too much and not just a break then do file for divorce. YOLO. Do you think he'll be a good coparent? Would he agree to an amicable divorce? Would you be happy on your own? Would you find a better or worse second husband? Would your BF or new DH would be a good step father?

If more breaks like this can help you then do take them once or twice a year. Would marital counseling help? Is he overwhelmed with his mom, you, kid, job, yard work and expectation of more chores? Would it help to hire help to do some chores to make life easier for both of you? [/quote]

So most people who are in this position find the different stressors of divorce are worth shedding a useless partner. Yardwork can be outsourced relatively cheaply. A service is like $3k for the season but you can pay a teenage boy less than that. And it’s not like the other spouse gets off the hook from child support or parenting. Further, many women never partner up again at all. There’s plenty of no strings attached sex out there for women if she has physical needs which many simply don’t. [/quote]

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