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[quote=Anonymous]FWIW OP, while you are at a breaking point, your husband has already been broken.

The good news is that exercise & favors for friends is not drugs, alcohol, gambling, or cheating with another. He is trying to improve himself in areas over which he has control. He is not strong enough to endure any more rejection. Many men are not as strong as women/mothers. Not an excuse, just an observation.

I have worked with many individuals who have to deal with severe handicaps--both physical and other types (criminal record,addictive behavior with bad habits, suffered abuse as a child,etc.). Gently mention to your husband his attributes and abilities and gently share that he has no limiting factors/circumstances as noted in this paragraph.

You need to get your husband to take a small step in the right direction; do not overwhelm him. He's injured & suffering in a different manner than you & your child are.

There is a Higher Power. If you belong to a church, try to meet with your pastor priest,rabbi,etc.[/quote]

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