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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Usually the spender also had other problems. I married one and dated another, but I was able to keep finances separately. Marriage wasn't too long luckily. One had ADHD, depression, and anxiety, the other one had ASD.[/quote] Oh come on, you could just as easily say the saver has other problems like OCD, depression, anxiety, and ASD.[/quote] But the "savers problems" are not preventing them from paying the bills or retiring by 65. Also, plenty of savers do not have any issues, they are just responsible adults. However most over spenders do have other underlying issues that are driving the spending. [/quote] There are extremes at both ends and op never specified specific goals regarding retirement age so you’re making a lot of assumptions. There are plenty of people in the FIRE community who want to live on a shoe string, save the bulk of their take home pay and retire in their 40s (often to continue to live a spartan lifestyle)…Many of these people have just as many underlying issues as the spenders.[/quote]
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