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[quote=Anonymous]You can't prevent cheating by having rules for your spouse. It's not within your control. You can express your vulnerabilities and fears. You can ask for understanding and validation. But ultimately you cannot prevent yourself from being hurt by controlling other people. The truth is that we will all be hurt in life. We'll lose people and things that we love through rejection, growing apart, death, etc. Knowing that that will happen and that we'll be OK is the first step to living a more joyful and serene life. The more you try to control him and the situation, the more negative energy you'll inject into your marriage. It's a vicious cycle. But you have the power to break it! If he cheats on you with her or someone else, well, that's because he's got poor judgment and boundaries. That's on him. And you'll be OK.[/quote]
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