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Reply to "Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life and marriage are stressful enough. Adding perfectly matched libidos forever to the list of requirements in a partner just makes marriage not seem worth it. I think marriage only really works between people who are able to adapt and accept the changes life brings. Many relationships are able to handle the good times but not the bad. I don't know if it's because we are inherently selfish and ultimately mostly care about our own pleasure and point of view. [/quote] It’s the old Prisoner’s Dilemma. In marriage, both people get further ahead as a unit if each maximizes their contribution. However, individually they win if each tries to maximize their take, and they both know it. So, if you don’t think your partner will prop you up, your rational decision is then to grab as much resources out of the marriage as you can.[/quote]
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