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Reply to "Does staying fit count as a contribution to your marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous]A minimum level of fitness is a contribution, as long as it's done efficiently and isn't burdensome to the family. Being more fit than is really necessary is a leisure activity, and a fitness regime that dominated the schedule or the menu and is burdensome to others is not a contribution, it's a deduction. When I was postpartum my DH decided to get into "the best shape of his life" and basically ditched me and his firstborn child for hours every weekend, and I still resent it 12 years later. Parking the kids at gym daycare is also bad, especially if you delude yourself that that counts as spending time with them.[/quote]
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