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[quote=Anonymous]Here’s how I see it:

Even if there are women who want to be objectified, even if most women want to be objectified only in certain contexts, that does NOT mean it is okay for men to objectify women without getting explicit consent.

Some men like to fight other men to the point they bleed, break bones, get concussions, or even die (boxers, MMA fighters, etc) Many men like to participate by watching these men fight, much like women may enjoy listening to certain songs. Many men may even fantasize about being able to participate in these fights. However, that does not mean these men have consented to other men fighting them without consent. Your H is essentially arguing that if a man enjoys watching MMA fights, a random man could come up, punch him in the face without warning, then claim “but you watch MMA fights! You’re confused! You men say one thing but act another!”

Reality is, adults should be able to understand there is nuance and navigate these situations. It’s not black/white. [/quote]

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