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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in one, very active on Panhellenic board, husband was also in IFC. There are many pros and cons. I think it elicits strong reactions due to the immaturity of “sorry you didn’t get a bid” type of comments. Some Greeks don’t seem to comprehend that it is very unappealing for very valid reasons to some people. [b]I am glad mine aren’t interested despite having an overall positive experience.[/b] I do understand why others are excited about it,  it can be a lot of fun and friends for a lifetime. [/quote]

Can you elaborate on this?[/quote]

I credit it with gaining confidence and leadership opportunities, but the day to day was not conducive to what I would want for kids. Rushing is vapid, focus was on partying many days of week, hazing, learning was secondary to Greek lifestyle and being a top house on campus. My son is way too academic and focused, wouldn’t appeal. My daughter who could possibly be interested, I’d rather she focus on more productive things than hair, makeup. clothing, parties and tik toks. Yes, they do good things too, but the outward appearances in all aspects of life is the focus. That just doesn’t jive with my adult sensibilities anymore. [b]I do understand houses and campuses differ on norms.[/b]
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It sure doesn't sound like you understand that at all.  You're generalizing to the nth degree.[/quote]

The PP asked for my opinion based on my experience and I shared it.[/quote]

Oh, really?  They had tic tok back in your day?  How remarkable![/quote]

I ma very confused by your responses? I am not seeking yo be combative. I stated it is superficial, showed in different ways then versus tik toks now. I am glad you are pro-Greek, I understand why many love it. I did too when I was in it.[/quote]

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