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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You guys are extremely forgiving.[/quote] I would not use "forgiving" because it might reinforce this. It's SELF -DESTRUCTIVE. It's one thing to forgive a parent who is fully accountable and regrets their past behavior, apologizes and gets help. Here it's just destructive not just to self actually, but to the family. What message are they giving to their own children about abuse? Be a roll model and have major boundaries. Of course she is gaslighting and it's a covert smear campaign if she insists to others you bruise easily because if they recall you having a lot of bruises she is implying you are a drama queen-it wasn't abuse, it was your bruising issue.[/quote]
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