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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think your decision is spot on. Give yourself an out by staying elsewhere, but go for an initial short visit to feel out the dynamic. Have a safety plan in place in case you need to make a quick exit. (For instance, have a rental car and keep the cars keys in your pants pocket--not jacket. Have a code word with DH for if you'd like to leave immediately but discreetly.) Kudos to the BIL for getting help and to the MIL for sticking by him and to you for not automatically cutting off contact without learning more.[/quote]
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