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[quote=Anonymous]My parents abused me years before. Everyone knew. For a bit I allowed my kids to go with my parents for a meal and a hotel swim once or twice a year. First I spoke to them about not hitting or disciplining my two. They said, "Oh no, that's the parents job." When they were 5 & 8 they swam at my parents' hotel with my favored brother who was 45ish. My brother pulled my 5yo into the pool by her ankle. My two went to my mother to complain. She told my two to "work it out amidst themselves," i.e., just them and their uncle work it out. All this is to say, if someone is horrible enough to routinely demonize and abuse a blameless child, even if they stop the abuse, they still have a very warped view of right/wrong/appropriateness. Be smarter than me. Keep them away from her, or make sure a trusted chaperone (not you -- send hub) is there to intervene if needed. [/quote]
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