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[quote=Anonymous]I know you thought you were on the slow road to divorce - separate homes, followed by legal separation and eventually divorce. But once you start down that road, the pace is only in your control to the point where you take control.

Neither of you made the moves to mend whatever went wrong for you and that ship seems to have sailed. Now that you know he’s accepted being over and wants to rebuild his life, you need to get on the fast track toward the next steps.

If I were you, I’d spend the weekend gathering everything you can on your financials. I’d also think about where you want to be since you are no longer going to be a couple and then figure out what it will take to build your new life.

And if there’s any possibility you want to repair, I’d suggest you figure out how to put your anger aside and discuss whether that is a possibility as soon as you can. After all you moved for and with him. You have a child with him. You bought a new house with him. There is at least a small possibility that he escalated because he thought you were done.

Good luck. [/quote]

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