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[quote=Anonymous]It really depends on your read of the situation. I've confronted men who behave this way before, when I was sure they would back down, and when the person they were verbally attacking was in a vulnerable position, such as a young, non-confrontational woman. For example, at the height of COVID, I confronted a man in a MAGA hat who was yelling at a very young (18-19ish) female employee of a store who told him he needed to wear a mask or he had to leave. Instead he just kept yelling at her about his freedoms or whatever. She was overwhelmed and freaked out, so I stepped in and told him he either needed to put his mask on or leave, or I would be calling my law enforcement husband (which was a total lie, but I've learned to always tell men I have a husband who is either law enforcement or a lawyer, depending on the context). Unfortunately, many men are extremely violent nowadays and it's not always safe to do so. If nobody is in immediate danger, it's sometimes better to just offer support to the victim afterwards. If someone is in danger, call 911. [/quote]
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