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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, just another perspective on this. My DH volunteers as an age-group coordinator in a local youth sports organization, and every season (2x/year) he rosters and schedules 500+ kids, 90% of whom come in with special requests. It's like a part time job. But one of the perks is that he gets to decide the schedule for our son's team. Is that fair? I don't know. But given the enormous amount of time he pours into this, and the fact that it's a largely behind-the-scenes position with little to no recognition of the hard work, it feels fair to me that he gets first dibs on the schedule. I for one appreciate all the work that the PTO does so that I don't have to. And if the "perk" they get is first dibs on the signup form? That seems okay to me.[/quote] NP. I actually tend to agree with this. I've never minded if the active PTO parents or the room parents or whatever get the "first dibs" at sign-ups. But OP is describing that not only did those parents choose their slots first, but that they then also signed up for multiple slots despite that there is literally a stated rule against multiple-sign ups at OP's school. That's not very community-minded. I agree, OP, I'd be miffed -- I don't think you're being petty. And I get why you want to volunteer at lunch. Folks on here are being obtuse; no parent actually themselves likes lunch duty, please! It's always parents of kids in only the younger grades because the little ones like seeing their parents at school. How strange -- a parent wants to do something to make their child happy!! My youngest is in first grade and last year in Kinder was beyond thrilled when I surprise showed up for lunch compost duty (I filled in last minute for someone who had to cancel). She has asked me multiple times to do it again this year. I plan to, for her, of course, -- compost duty is gross. My 5th grader, on the other hand, has given me strict orders not to dare volunteer at lunch, ha (ummm, gladly kiddo, NP). :lol: [/quote]
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