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[quote=Anonymous]We scheduled it when kids were little. I was like your DH and eventually brought up how unhappy I was with our sex life (which was like 1-2x a month but often months with zero). It sort of worked but tbh if she showed up for our 1x a week with a "get it over with" attitude, it wasn't really worth it. My advice is that if you both want to have more sex but have trouble finding time, then scheduling it will be a win. But if the reason a couple isn't having sex is because one of the people in the marriage just has zero libido, then scheduling it isn't going to accomplish anything. Its up to the low libido partner to find out what gets him/her in the mood and to execute or tell their spouse how to help get you there. Or don't and get divorced/cheated on and come back and be a victim.[/quote]
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