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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if I can. I agree with you OP that it seems like the people around me who have succeeded the most at having the lives they want are all willing to do things that I was taught you shouldn't do. But I don't know if I can become a different person at this age. Especially as a mom. When I think about breaking out of my "good girl" role I also think about my kids and how they might suffer for it, and I can't do that to them. I was taught that sometimes you sacrifice your own happiness for your kids. I don't know, I feel stuck in this role.[/quote] You can be very proud of your role. This world needs more women who are smart, educated, and motivated to be successful adults (whether working outside the home, volunteering, etc) but also kind, nurturing, and instilling good values in their children by their actions. Life can also change on a dime, and you never know what is really going on in other people's lives. Many people are hiding or covering up their insecurities and unhappy lives. [/quote]
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