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[quote=Anonymous]You would have 50/50 custody (it is the default and he will have no incentive to pay you more to not take it)

You will need to get a job and childcare.

Your standard of living will fall because you will be supporting two households on the same income that was formerly supporting one.

He will likely remarry and have more kids (reducing your children support payments) and your children will have step siblings and a step mom.

Frankly op you sound a little clueless.  It’s not like you can ‘replace’ their father.  If he’s a good provider than appreciate that and let some of your gripes go. You shouldn’t try to manage his relationship with the kids they need to sort that out themselves.  You shouldn’t rely on him to be your sole emotional support.  You may think you are the perfect parent but you are not.  There is no perfect parent.

You should try couples counseling.

You should be constantly monitoring all financial activity so you know where you both stand financially.  If he is hiding/keeping that from you then that would be grounds for divorce.

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