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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband did. Took 2 yrs. to get to the truth which was that he was gay.[/quote] That at least seems forgivable on most levels. Mine bolted from a decades long marriage. The marriage did indeed need to end. It's unfortunate for him that he didn't see the need to try to wrap it up in a civilized way even as I was saying "I agree with you." He took all his toys and ran away. I don't bother trying to get inside his head to get to the bottom of why he left the way he did. I focused on my own side of the street. Even though I'm the one who was dumped, I'm in a better place emotionally. He's chasing happiness but he's certainly not at peace. It's a bummer for our kids. Spoiler: permanent state of "happiness" is unrealistic. A more permanent state of peace is possible with a lot of honest work.[/quote] Mine dropped the bomb and ran away and never looked back. 20 years. No discussion. His girlfriend should ask a lot of questions.[/quote] 30 years together here. Did yours leave you for the girlfriend? Mine did. It doesn't seem emotionally healthy to cut and run like that but it's no longer my problem![/quote]
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