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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]…I care for my parent now because that's who I am. My behavior is not dependent on them. I'm an adult now. It's my choice.[/quote]
Do you live with your parent? If so, who moved in with whom? Do you work? Who cares for your parent when you’re not present? Is dementia involved? Who is paying for housing, groceries, medical costs? Are any other family members contributing?

Please don’t feel the need to answer, and I think you’re doing a very kind thing—but these details are important when it comes to caring for aging family members. Judging others in these extremely complicated situations isn’t helpful.

There is quite a bit of resistance by many older parents to allowing their adult children to influence (let alone take charge of) any of their affairs—while understandable, this puts adult children in the unfortunate and nearly impossible situation of being able to help only once things become quite dire.

Complicating matters today is that aging parents are living much longer with more serious health issues and disabilities.

https://www.prb.org/resources/fact-sheet-trends-in-family-care-for-older-americans/

Hopefully, there will be more support options on the horizon in the near future. In the meantime, it’s helpful to hear how and where others are finding support as they work to support their aging parents. [/quote]

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