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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]so completely, utterly wrong. I'm so sorry. He's either flat out lying or in huge denial because deep down he knows its wrong.If they're not already having a physical affair,they are well on their way and this is a totally, wholly inappropriate amount of contact.

I would probably set up an appointment with a therapist, then tell him that his behavior is jeopardizing the marriage, and insist that you go together to counseling, where he tells you whatever he needs to tell you in front of a third party. Tell him that for him to have that much contact with another woman means there are problems in the marriage that you both need to address before divorcing. Thats what I told DH when he was treading on thin ice and it woke him up. He still, to this day, doesn't think he was doing anything "wrong," but therapist convinced him that he owed it to me to stop the contact since it was clearly upsetting me--and if this other woman wasn't important, as he insisted, then he needed to give her up. While it burns me that he's never acknowledged how messed up his behavior was, he understood that I was very, very serious and that it was either me,the kids, our house, our lives or her. but not both.

good luck. [/quote]

This was my experience as well. It took almost losing his marriage for him to wake up and stop contact with his "best friend." The therapist was great at being an objective third party who told him she has seen this kind of thing end many marriages.[/quote]

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