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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doesn't matter if it's OLD or real life, if he's shy and introverted he's going to struggle.

I've dated shy, introverted men who I genuinely liked but it was always a MASSIVE struggle. They were too afraid to ask me out, couldn't plan a date, couldn't go out for very long because it was too exhausted, conversations were like pulling teeth, etc. I felt bad because they were genuinely great guys, but I don't want to do all the heavy lifting in a relationship.

The best thing would be for him to get a coach to help him learn some social skills and get over his shyness. Everything else is just a waste until he does that. [/quote]

Pleeez, not everyone is a party animal and introvert <> lack of social skills.  If he is indeed introverted, he wouldn’t be happy long term with a social butterfly anyway.  OP, make sure his expectations are realistic and he shows some initiative.[/quote]

OP needs to ask herself if he lacks social skills. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't.

It's not about being extroverted or a party animal. It's about being man enough to take a few social risks, and doing a fair share of the work to plan activities and carry a conversation. Women don't want to have to do all of this singlehandedly. They want a partner and some give and take. [/quote]

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