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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with much of what’s already been said, but I’ll add my perspective, having gone through this with both an athlete and a non-athlete. First, have fun with the process and make it as long or as short as you want. I truly enjoyed traveling the country with my girls and exploring campuses. For us, sports opened doors to places we may never have visited otherwise — a wonderful side benefit. It’s true: your child is probably not as unique or exceptional in the admissions process as you think. That’s not a knock on them — there are simply a lot of highly motivated and talented kids out there, especially in this area. Coaches and admissions officers can be brutally honest. In the end, they will land where they are meant to be. Don’t get caught up comparing your child to others. If you can afford it, consider hiring a reputable college counselor by the end of sophomore year. They can help keep your child motivated and on track, and manage the many moving pieces of the process. Let your child take the lead — with guidance from the counselor — and try to step back. Have open conversations early about what you can afford without relying on financial aid, since aid is never guaranteed. Overpromising only sets your child up for disappointment. Most of all, have fun and savor the experience. It goes by quickly.[/quote]
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